Tips on How to Find Love Again
I am sure that you have learned a lot Ted's Woodworking about all the things that you don't want to have in your relationship. At least, I had a long list in my mind. However, I didn't define what I really wanted, and I attracted all that I did not want because I focused on it. Change your focus today and stop thinking about what you do not want. Instead, focus your thoughts on what you want and describe the relationship of your dreams. To prepare this, you may take a paper and draw two columns. On one side, write down all things you don't want in your relationship, on the other side, turn it around into something you want. Allow yourself to dream big!
If you have defined what you want, you now have to take the next step: look at your description and define all the points that are show-stopper. Show-stoppers are these topics that are so important to you that you can't live without them. Just to give you a personal example: I love cats - I have three of them - and I need a partner who also loves animals and appreciates living together with them. A partner who is allergic to cats is simply not possible. If you are clear about your show-stoppers, use them to make a conscious choice whether you want a relationship with a person. The clue is that you have to have the courage to say "no" to somebody who does not meet your show-stopper criteria.
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